Monday, April 2, 2007

one spark one song

One song can spark a moment
One flower can wake the dream.
One tree can start a forest.
One bird can herald spring
One smile begins a friendship
One handclasp lifts a soul
One star can guide a ship at sea
One word can frame the goal
One vote can change a nation
One sunbeam lights a room
One candle wipes out darkness
One laugh will conquer gloom
One step must start each journey
One word must start each prayer
One hope will raise our spirits
One touch can show you care
One voice can speak with wisdom
One heart can know what's true
One life can make the difference
You see, IT'S UP TO YOU!
wonderin if we can be friends?

Trust

Several years ago one of my fren and I were discussing about the trust, how imp it is in one’s life. I was quite young at that time, as I was in class 12th. I used to think once you lost trust, intently or otherwise you won’t gain it back. After several years, I find I m change towards my thinking today I believe though its difficult but lost trust can be re-establish. People say trusting people is too risky; I personally believe not trusting people are a greater risk. We like the fact people trust us, but why we are timid to keep our trust on other people, answer is we are scared to loss our trust. My god I am champion in this. Initially it makes me hurt so many times. But gradually I started thinking no this is not the way we have to take our life, our trust. The thinking trust belong to character has to change here, character and competence these are the two main tool of trust. Character includes your integrity, your motive, your intent with people, competence include your basic core capabilities your skill your result. Why m talking here character and competence. Both are different in terms all together.
I remember a line I read somewhere, will zot down those words, how they co -relate.
“Character is a constant, but competence is situational majorly deal with kind of circumstance”. We have seen people who lost trust or loose others; we usually end up with creating issue or end up relation. There could be any circumstance any reason behind a particular scenario, we hardly could think of, and end up losing trusting. It’s been with me several time ending up losing my relation, gradually I thought some where I m also loosing, and loosing regarding things is not a solution, figure out the problem and if it could possible to sort out the problem. As I used to say to my ppl its no harm looking at brighter side, it won’t have an effect on your eyes .Aap das baar haroge kuch pane ke liye par aap jetoge bhi agar aap ko yaqeren aapki koshish hai.
 See again character and competence.(yaqeen- (keeping trust is character of and (koshis)trying things in positive way is your competence.) Trust me.... :)

cheers....
Naaz...